Ruby now has her father's permission and signiture to go to Japan. (She won a free trip in a Jr Achiement contest). The problem is that it may be too late to get the visa paper through, but then that's how passive aggressive manipulation works.
And now he will be seen positive light when we go to the will probate next week.
I am staying inside as much as possible with a bad chest cold. One of the luxuries of being retired is that you are not forced to work while sick.