my stepson is in the US planning to move his mother from her nursing home there to the Philippines where she can stay with family since she no longer could care for herself,
The bad news?
The extra bedroom is in my house.
Actually he wanted me to move upstairs to the apartment we have there, but my walking ability is shot since I had neuromuscular complications from dengue and I can't manage the stairs
So we will be in the same house.
So right now, we have all sorts of workmen cleaning and painting the aging house including my bedroom.
I am not sure who he will hire for a caregiver (he probably expects his wife, who is a trained caregiver, to do it, but she runs her own business so we might have to hire one.
Oh well. Does it bother me that my husband's ex is moving into what is essentially my husband's house? No because she is now senile and can't walk around, but needs a walker or wheelchair. So I can just lock the door and I still have two dogs in the room with me (she is a cat person and hates dogs).
My main dog died last week, and I miss him. But his two smaller siblings are now trying to take their place in my room at night, so now I have two in my bedroom instead of one....
Luckily we still have two other (larger) dogs outside to guard the business compound and an old female dog to guard the office upstairs.
so people all over cleaning and washing and painting: the place is in an uproar.
Sigh.